Who gets the first turn? When you were little you may have cried to get the first turn or you may even have pushed a friend out of the way to get the first turn. Now that you are older, you are learning how to share and how to take turns. Sometimes you might flip a coin to see who gets the first turn or do "one potato two potato." What you are learning is called conflict resolution. Conflict resolution is figuring out how to solve disagreements without fighting.